No-Limit Living & Self Love - Do You Have It?

Do you love yourself? Here is a wake up call - if you don't love yourself then you can't truly be loving to others because you can't give away what you don't have. Self love is one of the first steps toward becoming a no-limit kind of person. When you love yourself, you love what you stand for, and you certainly don't go around seeking the approval of others.

For those who are new to this topic may confuse self love with conceit. Let me make the distinction for you now. A conceited individual is someone who relies on the approval of others. For example, if you feel the need to let people know how good looking and great you are then on the surface you may come across as one of many things (i.e. conceited..); but deep down you are unconsciously seeking the approval of others and thus being controlled by those opinions.

Side Lesson from Kamjah: Let go of approval seeking behavior. You will move faster toward your true purpose in life.

No-limit / self actualizing people essentially have a quiet love affair with themselves. If you ask a no-limit person "Do you love yourself?", you'll probably get an answer like: "I never though about that", or "it's nothing I pay attention too", or even "of course I do", because for them self love is already a given. The no-limit person is so busy focused on their purpose and what they are about that they don't have time to notice what the neighbors are doing or what anybody else is saying about them.

For example, a no-limit person may show up to a party or a club dressed different from what most people are wearing. Chances are this no-limit person won't even notice unless someone else points it out. This is because no-limit people are not focused on external appearances, and understand that dressing is just something we do based upon what we feel like wearing. They also get that true power and beauty comes from within and keep that power for themselves instead of giving it away to others. Now this is not to say that this person would show up to a formal affair wearing tennis shoes and a loin cloth. In other words this would be a person who is still trying to impress other people with their uniqueness and differences. And the fact that you have to impress other people means that others are controlling you. No-limit people have controls from within which only they have access to.

It's amazing how once you find purpose in life so many other things fall into place on there own. Most people who live with purpose are the no-limit kind. I know for some of you it may seem hard to imagine yourself living a no-limit kind of life, yet it is possible with the right support. Life coaching is a real way toward unlocking your personal brilliance and discovering your true life purpose; not to mention putting yourself on the path toward feeling internally complete and personally fulfilled. If you can see yourself living that way, take a second to notice how good it feels to no longer be carrying those heavy weights. The choice is up to you.

~ Geoff Schmidt

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